At Neufeld Aotearoa, our research is grounded in attachment based child development, exploring how secure relationships shape emotional maturity, learning, and wellbeing across home, school, and therapeutic settings. We highlight studies that apply the Neufeld attachment-based developmental approach in real-world contexts – from counselling and corrective emotional experiences to teacher–student relationships and professional development for educators. By bringing this growing body of evidence into focus, we aim to support practitioners, whānau and communities in Aotearoa to make sense of children through the lens of relationship and development, rather than behaviour alone.
At Neufeld Aotearoa, our research focuses on attachment based child development. We explore how relationships shape children’s emotions, behaviour and learning. In this section, we share studies and projects that inform our work with parents, educators and professionals across Aotearoa New Zealand.
Our work starts with a simple idea: children grow best in safe, secure relationships. Because of this, we study how attachment links to mental health, behaviour and learning. We look at how caring adults can protect, guide and nurture children in everyday life.
In addition, we pay close attention to the pressures children face today. Many tamariki and rangatahi experience high levels of alarm, anxiety and frustration. Our research asks how attachment based child development can help them feel safe, seen and supported again.
Across different projects, several themes keep appearing. Together, they shape how we understand children and how we support the adults around them.
1. Relationships before behaviour
We study what happens when adults focus on the relationship first, rather than on behaviour alone. For example, we look at how strong adult–child connections reduce anxiety, aggression and shut-down. The findings help us offer practical steps for parents, teachers and practitioners.
2. Emotion as the driver of development
Our research also explores the role of emotion in development. We ask how children process feelings like sadness, alarm and frustration. In particular, we study how safe attachment relationships allow emotions to move, soften and integrate over time.
3. Contexts where children grow
In addition, we pay attention to the settings where children live and learn. These include homes, early childhood centres, schools and community spaces. We explore how adults in each setting can bring an attachment based child development lens into their daily practice.
We do not keep research on the shelf. Instead, we use it to support real people in real places across Aotearoa New Zealand. The studies we draw on shape the design of our courses, workshops and professional development.
For example, we use research findings when we:
design parenting courses and seminars
create resources for teachers and learning support staff
offer input to counsellors and other helping professionals
support organisations that want to build attachment-rich cultures
As a result, parents and professionals gain practical insights that match the realities they face with tamariki and rangatahi.
Attachment based child development is a living, growing field. Therefore, we commit to ongoing learning and reflection. We keep engaging with international research from the Neufeld Institute and other sources. At the same time, we stay grounded in the unique context of Aotearoa New Zealand.
Over time, we will add more summaries, reflections and links to this page. In this way, we hope to make research accessible, readable and useful for anyone who cares for children and young people.
You may be:
a parent or caregiver looking for clarity
a teacher or kaiako seeking fresh understanding
a counsellor, social worker or other professional wanting a solid framework
However you come to this page, our hope is the same. We want the lens of attachment based child development to help you make sense of the children in your care. We also hope it offers you relief, direction and renewed confidence as you walk with them.